Meeting a potential buddy

Meeting the Russian guy for drinks (just drinks!) in the city after he gets off work. We've had some very hot chats online, so I imagine that I'm going to be standing on the subway with a noticeable erection in my pants for anyone whose choice of seat puts them in a direct line-of-sight to my crotch. Even if the muzhik and I hit it off over drinks, an actual j/o hookup isn't going to be on the menu tonight, which in a way is kinda nice -- it's fun to delay the erotic gratification sometimes, and let the horniness build as you wonder when you're finally gonna get the chance to take the guy's hard dick out of his pants and take your first long look at it...